I usually reply, That hasn’t been our experience.
Or, We appreciate all our customers.
What other clear, civil comebacks can we use?
July 9, 2009 by jumblethrift
I usually reply, That hasn’t been our experience.
Or, We appreciate all our customers.
What other clear, civil comebacks can we use?
Complain about all the Scandinavians, Irish, and Germans who clog up your store. And especially the LUTHERANS.
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You could say you opened the shop in her community because you liked the exciting mix of different people and you just love the way your shop has become a meeting place for everyone.
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I think I would be tempted to civilly show her the door. However, that is probably not a helpful response.
Mrs. Words and Barnabas give excellent options. Maybe (if this were truly the case), you could remark about the great donations to the thrift store by people of differing races and how it’s improved your inventory and selection. And how grateful you are for *all* your customers.
A perplexed/confused/baffled facial expression with a “What?” might let a person know that their remark was out of line.
p.s. I’ve gleaned that tip from the world of adoption and parents who have kids of different skin colors who frequently get (absurd, ignorant, pick-your-adjective) questions or remarks and need a quick (since it’s usually in passing) response that says a lot.
I’m a big fan of ‘frown power” (google it) myself, or the wide-eyed, stunned look, followed by a hushed, “I can’t believe an intelligent person like you said that.”
You could say something like, “I KNOW! How DARE someone of a different race than you desire affordable clothing!” Take the comment to its logical (and by that I mean illogical) conclusion.
“Clear, civil” comebacks?
“Clear” I can think of, but honestly you got me on the “civil”.
I think I’d have to bite my tongue. “We appreciate all our customers” is nice…
Yeah, and ask for advice. Some good ideas in the comments! (Mrs. Words’ idea is very gracious and civil!”)
“Oh, we just love it! We want the whole world to come to Fulda. And spend a couple dollars, too!” Good. Civil.
“My problem is with those pesky Whiners. Man, they are the worst of the worst. I never know what to do with those Whiners.” Not so good. Quite uncivil.
This is good stuff, folks. Thank you! I’ll definitely keep these in my hip pocket and pull them out as needed.
Cheers, KP